jo_anne_storm: (BtVS -- Babble)
Wow, it's been awhile. And there was a post brewing in my head, right up until the time when I went to post... OK, so when I was checking my last coupe of posts to see what I had said before. Just: proof! Gone!

Let's see. DH and I did manage to buy that attached 6.9 acres. That took us to 11.9 acres. It's a good thing we have a tractor. And that I like using it.

We have narrowed down the whole food allergy thing to corn. I know I said last time that corn starch was ok. I was wrong. The reaction was masked as something else. Like swollen feet after my SiL's wedding. I just thought that my shoes had irritated my feet. Only I did not wear them for long because they were uncomfortable. And the irritation extended far above where the shoes sat.

So, yeah. No corn. But, at least it seems that it is not always the corn byproducts. Dextrose, for example, seems to be fine. Which means we can use table salt. Yay.

MiL maybe, finally, believes that it is good related. Maybe. But only because I have finally gone 3 whole weeks without hives.

Or, sometime in the next couple of weeks, she will remind me to ask again about chronic hives at my next appointment.

What was I going to post about?

Oh!!! That's what!

OK, so I know I have mentioned that I have a sister. At one point, I think I actually said that I have 3 siblings, and we all have J names. My brother and eldest sister are from my father's first marriage. There's a lot of hurt feelings involved. I am fb friends with them, but that is about it.

My eldest sister, I have not seen in over 20 years. Dad died in '92. That was the last time I saw her.

Anyway. Janice, the sister, started a new relationship a few years ago. She got married today, according to FB. I dunno, I wasn't invited.

I'm a bit weirded out by the relationship. Why? Because her new husband shares a last name with my husband. It they are related, it is very distantly. Still, weirded out.
jo_anne_storm: (Toph -- Upside Down)
No, seriously. She swears she knows more than any doctor. And comes up with these hairbrained ideas.

So, I'm still having hives. The elimination diet is working! But there are hiccups. Like the munchkin drinking my water after eating popcorn. Or the salad at a theme park that should have been perfectly safe. Only it wasn't. Most of it is my fault because I have to adjust my way of thinking. "Oh, #3 left grapes behind. I'll eat those." Only, if he was also eating a corndog, then those grapes are now contaminated with sausage, corn, and eggs, none of which we have eliminated yet.

We have eliminated milk and tomatoes as the cause. Corn starch also seems fine, though corn and corn syrup do not. And right now I am an itchy mess due to eating out. Yes, yes, I know...

Anyway, the elimination diet is obviously having an effect. I'm not having huge outbreaks. So, yay.

Only... My MiL keeps looking for alternative reasons for why I could be having hives. I have thyroid issues. I mentioned to her that thyroid issues can cause hives (after proof positive that it is something I eat because I had just gone 3 days without any). And obviously I should march down to my family doc and have him do a complete work up!

The latest one was because DH and Eldest also had a spot of hives. Both on their hands and DH on his forearm as well. We think they got into some poison ivy. The area of hives did not change in any way. Just stuck around for a bit. DH finally remembered to take some benadryl and his are now gone. He told me this in front of MiL, who had not known about his or Eldest's hives. Suddenly we needed to explore the possibility that it was a parasite.

We both looked at her like she was crazy. Both times she tried to push the issue.

She's looking for zebras when she can SEE the horses.

But my legitimate medical issue is inconvenient for her, so she tries to find another explanation. And she tries to rush adding things back in. Like the corn starch/syrup/solids. She's the one who told me that they are all different and had me ask the NP if they needed to be excluded as well. And yet, we missed something with starch, therefore we should be good to add all 3 back in. Literally, we were talking about it at dinner one night and she completely ignored the fact that I had JUST said I wanted to wait a few days to be sure before adding corn back in, even though we were using corn starch already. I had to do that thing where you stop, look a person dead in the eye, and speak slowly and clearly so that there is no mistake.

She's gonna get her head bitten off.

On a good note, no junk food equals healthier eating and I have lost around 15#. So, yay.
jo_anne_storm: (Bones -- Ew!)
Kindle and autocorrect do not like me. I consistently hit the period instead of the space bar. It causes grammar issues.

So, it's been six weeks now since I started having an allergic reaction to something. I finally had a dermatology appointment yesterday. I liked the NP. So, yay.

Official diagnosis is hives, which I knew. I am also now on an elimination diet to try to figure it out. Fun. No milk, eggs, tomatoes, pork, nuts, or a couple of other things.

Seriously, if I'm reacting to tomatoes, I'm going to throw the biggest fit. I love tomatoes.

I knew an elimination diet was the next step, I just... didn't want to do it. It's a hassle. Luckily, my MiL is being good about it, since my doctor told me to do it.

Also, 2 new prescriptions. One could cause mood changes. Isn't that fun?

Anyway, first day of the diet went ok. Except that I got too hungry while at Wal-Mart. I didn't cheat, though.

In other news, Eldest turns 18 next week. WHAT!?!?!

And DH is two months overdue for knee injections because the VA is stupid.
jo_anne_storm: (BtVS -- Ow!)
No, seriously. I turn 40 this year. Whatever. I'm fat. Whatever. I have suddenly developed allergies. W.T.F. !?!?!

I am trying to track them. Coughing and wheezing due to tree pollen. I take stock of my symptoms before checking the allergy tracker pages/apps. If tree pollen is high, I'm wheezing, especially early morning or at night. I was worried that it was the cats or the dog, but a 36 hour trip to Gatlinburg had me wheezing worse than at home. Trees were in full bloom there at the time and only partially bloomed here.

Still, it's not too bad.

Until April Fool's Day/Easter Sunday. When I had a reaction to something. It caused a huge rash over my waisteline. I took a Benedryl that night and woke up to that rash being mostly gone and a new one on my breasts. And so it.goes. the rash starts.as.almost a.bug bite, then grows. It eventually resembles a ring worm infection or a bullseye rash, but just keeps spreading. Finally, it settles.down and.disappears, sometimes getting pretty big in the process. Spots the size of my closed.first. My doctor gave me a cream for it, which helps a little, I guess. The prednisone did not help at all.

I suspect it is something I am eating. I also have a suspect food, though I am holding off on testing that theory until I have more data. 2 days of food diary does not produce enough data.points.

I have another doctor's appointment on Tuesday with my family doctor. As Liz would say, it's my lady parts.appointment. I will talk to him about it then and go over options. Probably.get the name of a good allergist for testing. And talk to him about my migraines.

Right now, I'm an itchy mess. I have a huge spot on the back of my knee and sever spots on the back of my neck that are.slowly merging. Those really itch.

In other news, we have finally had some progress on the whole electrical issue. To remind people, the 200 amp breaker box in the basement is fed off a 100 amp breaker on the main level. We only have 200 amps coming into the house right now. The conduit for the new, 400 amp.service has been laid. The electrician is going to connect 400 amps to the house that will split into 200 amps for the basement and 200 amps for the rest of the house. I will get to do laundry and have heat at the same time!!! But, there have been many delays due to weather and equipment failure. But, progress!!!

We are.also currently waiting on a title search to be completed.on the house in order to get a home equity.line of credit. Yes, we just.refinanced, which actually makes it all easier since everything I ng is still valid. We just have to wait for this one piece of paperwork... Then, we can buy the 6.99 acres.that borders us!

Other than that... Work around the house. Using the chainsaw to clear brush that had popped up in the last 8 years. Not mowing the lawn because it is covered I. Little marker flags and I would hit them with my tractor. The push mower is in the shop because it was leaking gas all over the place. And, you know, not running


Yeah, life.
jo_anne_storm: (Rose Hill)
First of all, I actually contacted support for the craziness that is the dialogue box. Basically, the Rich Text Editor is ancient and doesn't like modern things. So, to the HTML editor we go.

Look, Ma, no random capitalization!

What's been happening? We just went to Volunteer Jam XX. It's a concert the Charlie Daniels Band puts on. Not every year, because he started in '74 and this was number 20. Often enough, though.

We went last year as well. The format this year was different. The majority of the acts only sang one song. Still, I got to see Lynrd Synyrd, Billy Gibbons, Allison Krause...

And it is not scrolling down. I am currently typing under the section that has location and comment screening
That's just wild...

Anyway,we took the older 2 boys. Only, we didn't think to get them tickets when we got tickets. So, we had floor seats and theu still had tickets.

Ok, it's sorta scrolling now. It at least it not going into the Crossposting box. Totally counts.

Did I mention that the property next to us is going up for sale? Well, we assumed so, at least since they were surveying and doing soil tests. Today we noticed that the neighbor on the other side of the property was moving his fence. We are pretty sure that the survey showed that he owned more than they thought. He owns almost 80 acres, according to the plat.

Anyway... we talked to one neighbor and got the owner's number. 6.9+/- acres for $60k. Considering the opposite end of the road has 1 acre plots listed at $27.5k...

And, we don't actually want all u acres. What we want is the front acre, which has the pond that we own part of (yes, we have equal access to it, but still) and the back... maybe 3 acres. But then that would leave a weird bit that was cut off from the road.

The property in question is a L shape, well, and upside down L. With the long part running our east property line and the short part our north property line. They recently chopped about an acre off the original 7.9 acres to.separate out the house near the road. They surveyed driveway easements and did perk tests.

So... DH has an idea that he is going to float. We hold the mortgage to the 14 acres we sold. Owner finance things. The buyer is paying us 5% interest on the loan and owes $55k. So, he is going to suggest that they take that mortgage in trade for the 7 acres.. Basically, sell the mortgage for property.

This is all perfectly legal, btw. Mortgages get sold all the time and the lawyer specifically said that we could sell the mortgage at some point. It does not affect the buyer, other than who he writes the check to.

Companies do this all the time. Our own mortgage was just sold to SunTrust. As long as everyone keeps their paperwork in order, it's.no biggies.. If you don't, you have market crashes, court battles, and judges laughing because no one knows who actually owns a mortgage.

I think individuals don't usually do that type o thing, though. Unless they're loan sharks.

But... We will see. Owning 9 acres outright, with 2 acres part of the mortgage sounds very nice.

In other news, we now have an electrician who is going to fix the screwed up electricity in the house. And 4.trees.are.going to come.crashing down. Fun times.
jo_anne_storm: (IPS -- Grammar)
 I downloaded a highly reviewed Kindle Unlimited book.  I wasn't expecting much, mind you.  Werewolves in Alaska, c'mon.

I made it partway through chapter 5.  That's when the ritualized, public rape happened.  Or maybe it was the next chapter, where the 2 dimensional romantic interest/husband/rapist was revealed to be seriously unlikable. 

Not to mention the horrible editing and honestly horrible writing.  I have read MUCH bettet fanfic than that. 

On a sorta related note, I have been helping a friend get his Urban Fantasynovelsl Ready To Farm OUt.  (Dammit DreAmwidth Interface.  I Need To Report This....)  Much Better Than This Book.  Much Better.  And He Says The Feedback I Am Giving Him Is Useful.  So, Yay.
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jo_anne_storm: (Toph -- Upside Down)
 Eventually I will stop doing this.  Really.  Going from walking pneumonia straight to bronchitis was not my best plan.  I'm feeling much better, but I keep waking up in the middle of the night, coughing my head off.  It is not fun.

Updates from recent posts:  

Back in May there was the whole shit storm about throwing her things away and moving fabric.  We finally have all the fabric washed and folded.  Not quite 2 seven foot bookcases worth of fabric, once it was folded neatly.  Or, neatish.  And it is not sorted very well.  But I can now at least touch all of it without gagging.  And, yes, I threw some away.  Anything smaller than my hand (and not an obvious quilting project), mouse eaten, or piss stained was snuck out and burned.  Because EW! My MiL every once in awhile will make a "subtle" comment to see if I threw something out.  Will mention a large piece of green cloth that used to be in the sewing room, or large safety pins, but she doesn't know where they are now.

DH LOVES his job.  He is basically the problem solver for a company that prints off bank documents.  So, tax forms, notices that they are not going to penalize you for a late payment due to the hurricane and flooding, that sort of thing.  And his bosses love him, so that's good.

He is currently on a low dose antidepressant.  He's been on one before, right after he got out of the Army.  It did not work then, but that was before his knee pain was effectively treated.  This time,since he is not in constant pain, it is working much better.  He doesn't feel as short tempered and doesn't feel like a shoe is about to drop.  So, that's all good.  The psychology appointments have not worked out so well, though.  He's supposed to be doing Skype type appointments, only the doctor he was assigned to can't get her system to work...

The House was appraised today.  (And Now My Kindle It Capitalizing Every Word.  Why?)  It went well, I think.  The appraiser basically said that we would easily appraise for the refinance amount.  So, yay.  

And the, Eldest put his foot through the ceiling while putting Christmas boxes away.  Again.  He did it 2 years ago as well.  Youngest did it last year.  So...  I have a hole in my ceiling, because I could not deal tonight. I'm going to make him fix it, because skillz.

Oh, the other thing that happened (and now my Kindle is not capitalizing things, but if I type too fast it adds letters and won't take them away.  Kindle and the DW dialog box do not get along.) is that the fridge downstairs has possibly bit the dust.  I'm honestly not sure.  It's only 2 ish years old.  But the freezer portion is not getting cold enough and the fridge is freezing things.  We are defrosting it tonight and I will try again tomorrow.  This is after the water filter in it cracked and flooded the basement kitchen.  So...  Yeah.

Oh!  Insulation is up in the basement room we are remodeling.  The difference in temperature is amazing!  Once the sheetrock is up, we plan on shuffling the boys into that room while we do the same to their bedroom.  Because it makes that significant of a difference.  

(And now the Kindle is not auto capitalizing after periods and the autocorrect feature is just the options of s, d, and this...  Every time I switch to a different tab for a moment, to check to see what needs an infodump update, the quirk between Kindle and the DW dialog changes. Or Possibly When I Click OutSide Of The Dialog Box.  Seriously?!?!?! 

now im going to play with it.  this is one click outside the box.  obviously autotcorrect has failed.

Next, What Is It Going TO Do?

ThirD Time?  This Thing Is So.Weird.


Forth.  Wonder What Will Happen If I Go To A Didifferent Tabout For A Moment.

Let's See, Shall We?

Yeah, kindle And Ew Have Issues.)

Oh!  The cat that had kittens.  We ended up keeping 2 of them.  This means we have 6 cats in the house, which is way too much.  Good thing we have a 5,000.square foot house...  We kept the black girl, who is Luci Furr and the boy, who is Loki.  Both have been fixed already.  After the holidays I will get their mom fixed.  

Also, sorry for tbe crazy spellings, capitalizations, and randomness.  I blame it all on the quirk.


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jo_anne_storm: (Toph -- Upside Down)
 So, about 8-10 years ago, DH was home on leave and needed to work on some house hold projects.  He did not let the fact that he was running a fever or coughing up huge gobs of mucus stop him.  I fussed at him for working the poo ugh what was probably pneumonia.  He laughed.

Right now, he's pointing his finger and laughing at me for doing things like laying flooring while having walking pneumonia.

Man, this sucks.  1/10, I do not recommend.  I mean, I'm over weight and out of shape, yes.  But walking down the hall should not leave me practically gasping.

I have another doctor's appointment tomorrow.  Hopefully we can get this cleared up.

Youngest and #3 also have coughs.  Youngest has already been seen once.  I'm probably going to take them both with me to the doctor tomorrow.  Youngest has an appointment in the afternoon and #3 on Tuesday, but the doctor might take 5 minutes and listen to their lungs during my appointment.

In other news:

Did I mention that we are refinancing the house?  The original mortgage was a balloon payment that we renewed.  The balloon payment is coming due in March. Eeep.  But, the bank seems to think it will all go through with no issues.  As long as the appraisal is not horrendously below the loan amount.  Thus laying floor while suffering from pneumonia.

I just want to be able to breathe again.
jo_anne_storm: (Rose Hill)
 We had the old cabin taken down today.  This thing has been a hassle for quite awhile.  Hand hewn logs from around 1870 and no one wanted them.  Seriously? We tried to give them away to every historic site in this portion of the state with no luck.

There are guys surveying the property next door, which probably means it is going to go up for sale.  *winces*  I don't want neighbors.  If only we had the money to buy that 7 acres...

This is how my parents ended up with 20 acres when my dad was alive. (Damn Mom for not paying the fucking property taxes on what we owned outright and letting the bank foreclose on what we did not.)

Maybe it will be fine.  Maybe one of the other neighbors will buy it and we will have cows on it again.  And not some random person who wants to build a huge, obnoxious house.  Though, it would be nice if another huge, obnoxious house was close enough to use for appraisals...
jo_anne_storm: (Coexist)
 So, I have this interesting friend, met through DH during his Army years.  He calls me a cuss leech because he has to throw a morality check any time he cusses in front of me.

Of course, he also publicly posts about his sexual kinks, is proud of both his wife and their sub...  

Interesting friend.

I like sending him dick jokes and pictures.  Because I can.

He posted this today:

In case no one has told you today:

You're literally the only person who remembers that social fuck up that kept you awake last night.


And...  I know this, of course.  Everyone knows it.  But seeing it written down is sorts mind blowing to me tonight.  Possibly because I have been remembering the social missteps I made in Italy several years ago.  Random, I know.  But, the fact that I ordered an eggplant parmesan pizza, not eggplant parmesan, and basically stole someone else's dinner and confused the very nice waiter, still makes me twitch.  (I would have paid for the mistake and taken the pizza back to the room if that had not been our last night in Rome.  I couldn't take it on the bus the next day.)

Yes, these are the things that haunt me.

In other news, we have demoed the room in the basement that has the worst water issues.  Used water proofing paint on the cinder block walls and waited a week for rain.  It is MUCH better now.  DH is going to frame out new walls at some point.  Then insulation, some new wiring, and then I think a break before sheet rock.  

We have got to get the electric taken care of...


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jo_anne_storm: (Default)
This journal has become friends only.  At some point I'll add a nifty graphic. 

Comment to be added, etc.



Edit:  Just to let you know, I'm picky about who I add.  Call me paranoid.  I will not add someone who friends me unless I know him or her from somewhere else or if he or she leaves a comment here to at least introduce yourself.

Fic and art posts will always be unlocked unless I delve into the realms of NC-17. 


Edit2: I have created a fic journal for myself.  All new fanart/fanfic will be housed at [livejournal.com profile] icanbecreative . 
jo_anne_storm: (Lion King -- Cheesey Grin)
 And not really the reason for the massive sorting of earlier.

I scored a 150 gallon, reef ready fish tank for FREE!  We pick it up tomorrow. 

It needs to be recaulked and we need to build a stand for it.  I also need to figure out lights.  LEDs are the latest thing and confusing compared to the last time I looked at this question.

$1k+ tank for free!  

And...  It might be 2 years before I'm able to do anything with it.  But, i can affors to.store it for that price.

More Fanart

Aug. 2nd, 2015 02:27 pm
jo_anne_storm: (Default)
Fanart for the story "It Don't Come Easy" by twisted_slinky. It can be found here.


(On a sorta related note, I have been basically offline for a month. Both because the wireless here sucks and because I have been busy. I'm unwilling to work to change the first because DH is going to sweep in and change everything anyway. As for the second, I just need to get through it.)
jo_anne_storm: (Default)
Fanart for the story "The Right Partner" by owlmoose. Story can be found here.
jo_anne_storm: (House -- Not Broken)
A FB rant from my cousin )

(Names changed to be safe.)


Dear Cousin,

The least offensive thing I could say here is that the mother is the first teacher. 

You blame her father and the judicial system for ruining your daughter's life.  For her going back to jail.  For her losing five years of her life during her previous stint in jail.

The mother is the first teacher.

Who taught your daughter right from wrong?  Who taught her to respect others?  Who taught her to strive to better herself? 

Where were you when she was 16, pregnant, and committing whatever crime sent her to jail for five (or more) years?  Were you with your own husband, who is also in jail?  Or with the boyfriend who beat the shit out of you?

Were you teaching her about parental responsibility when you dropped her and your son off with your mother and left for days at a time to be with your boyfriend?

Do not blame the judicial system.  If you want someone to blame, look in a mirror.  Did you encourage your daughter to better herself while in prison?  Did she get a GED, maybe take college courses?  Did you help her by proof-reading her job applications?  By helping her transition smoothly?

There are a few very telling things to me.  The fact that your granddaughter was not left in your custody, but was adopted by an outside family.  The fact that a judge considers you a harmful influence on your daughter to such a degree that he granted a no contact order.  The fact that your first assumption is that people will think that you are high. 

The mother is the first teacher.  And you, my dear, failed spectacularly.

jo_anne_storm: (Pixar -- Laugh)
Cracked round up of the 5 most horrific sex scenes in fanfiction.  Seriously.

If Cookie Monster/Clay Morrow dos not make you laugh, then nothing will.

jo_anne_storm: (IPS -- Grammar)
Amazon Worlds, where you can publish fanfic from certain WB franchises and earn royalties for your stories.

I'm really...  I don't like it.  Fanfic has always been driven by pure love, not by money.  And the few times someone has tried to publish pure fanfic, the internet exploded with hate.

What I'm seeing as the end result is that the WB will start making a profit on fan stories and send Cease and Desist orders to free fanfic sites.

Really, no, I do not like this.

Edit:

From the Bleeding Cool comments section, a breakdown of some of the fine print:
There's also a couple "gotchas" in this. The first is relatively minor, but it says that the owners of the IP that authors borrow will have an exclusive license to your work. So if you did what Larry Niven did when he got a chance to write an episode of Star Trek (animated), and adapted one of his short stories to fit in the Trek universe, you wouldn't be able to publish that short story (in its original form) elsewhere. The bigger "gotcha" comes next: While they reassure authors that they'll retain the copyright to their original elements (new characters, settings, plot, dialog), the owners of the IP you're borrowing will have a license to use them, without paying you an additional penny. I suspect they included this clause to protect themselves from "you stole my idea" lawsuits, but it would be oh so easy for them to abuse it. So not only would Larry Niven be unable to publish "The Soft Weapon" on his own, he would've handed the Kzinti to Paramount to use in future episodes (and books and movies and plush toys), free of charge.

Also, with free sites, why would you pay for fanfic?  I can see why getting paid royalties would seem nice, but most fanfic authors I know are not in it for the money (obviously).  They do it because they love the worlds and the characters.  Because they love writing and want to hone their craft. 

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